Stevie Blaine (@bopo.boy) Hello there, Real Life Ken! Stevie is a male body confidence advocate with many wonderful things to say. View this post on Instagram The pressure society puts on men to be masculine is suffocating, and I believe a huge factor as to why there aren’t as many guys who openly discuss their body image 💙 Men are expected to be manly, strong and never show emotion. Something which we are spoon fed from such a young age. I remember when I was a kid and I took my pink power ranger toy into school only to have it confiscated and my parents told that isn’t a ‘boy’ toy and it’s far too feminine 💙 I remember when I would get upset I would be told to ‘man up’ rather than talk about my feelings – because apparently ‘boys don’t cry’ 💙 And I remember being ridiculed for being far more artistic than I ever was athletic 💙 Toxic masculinity is rife within our society, it’s often used as a shield for the actions of men because ‘boys will be boys’ but that’s bullshit. Men are accountable for their actions and masculinity isn’t strict in its definition, despite what many would have you believe 💙 Men cry Men talk about their emotions Men are artistic Men like pink And most important men come in every form imaginable – and just because they don’t live up to yours and society’s expectations of what it means to be a man, doesn’t make them any less of one 💕 #bopo #bodypositive #bodypositivity #effyourbeautystandards #malebodypositivity #nowrongway #masculine #masculinity #toxicmasculinity #gay #gayuk #growingupgay #lgbtqia #selflove #loveyourself #donthatetheshake #beunapologeticallyyou #embracethesquish #allbodiesaregoodbodies #everybodyisbeautiful A post shared by Stevie Blaine (@bopo.boy) on Nov 7, 2018 at 12:03pm PST View this post on Instagram So this past week has been kinda crazy, my self love journey has gone viral and the Queen @sharonosbourne knows who I am 😍 I want to say thank you so much for all the support and kind comments I have received it honestly means the world to me 🌍 #bopowarrior #bropo #bopo #effyourbeautystandards #embracethesquish #nowrongway #beunapologeticallyyou A post shared by Stevie Blaine (@bopo.boy) on Nov 11, 2018 at 1:34pm PST View this post on Instagram Just a little reminder that your body isn’t the problem You are not the problem Those little stretch marks, those blemishes and scars are not the problem Society’s the problem. It’s standards are the problem and the ridiculous ideals you’re held accountable to are the problem You’re beautiful You’re worthy And you’re exactly how you’re supposed to be 💕 #bopo #bropo #bodypositive #bodypositivity #effyourbeautystandards #nowrongway #beunapologeticallyyou #bopowarrior #bopobabe #boporevolution #malebodypositivity #bodyposi A post shared by Stevie Blaine (@bopo.boy) on Nov 6, 2018 at 1:43pm PST