Cheyenne (@goofy_ginger)


Cheyenne is an all round Queen.

Documenting her recovery from sexual assault and struggles with chronic illness, it’s no wonder her account has gone from strength to strength.

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We all go through times when we are surrounded by problems, and after exhausting all of our options, we just don’t know what to do anymore. In life, we move a lot. We move through school, relationships, jobs. Sometimes, it feels like a race because we’re moving so fast. But other times, we’re just meant to stand. We are meant to be still and wait. When you have done all you can do, it’s time to redirect your focus and trust that this situation will unfold as it’s meant to. You may feel like you're failing at life, but life isn’t hard because of you. It’s just hard. This isn’t your fault, and no one would be better off without you. Please don’t tell yourself that. You are doing the best you can, and you can feel at peace with that. You may think you can’t make it, but you CAN. You are stronger than every problem you’re up against. Some hard days stretch into weeks, months, and even years. Hard times are inevitable, and we don’t get to know how long it will last or how it will end. We just have to show up, do the best we can with the resources we have, and leave the rest up to fate. If I was only positive when life was good, I would be a completely different person. I’m strong and joyful in good times, and I work to remain strong and joyful in the lonely, painful, confusing times. I try to laugh a lot, stimulate happiness, and enjoy the fuck out of my life, despite the hardship. Sure, it doesn’t solve my problems, but neither does obsessing over them. We are allowed to have fun and be happy WHILE having problems. You can walk in the light, even when you’re surrounded by darkness. My goal is to be rooted in strength, peace, and love. So, even when life gets bad, I won’t give up. I stand strong through it all. I may cry and scream and even fall, but I refuse to succumb to my circumstances. When we start to wonder, “What if this never ends?” let’s remind ourselves, that even if life just keeps getting harder, by God, we will just keep getting STRONGER! No matter how long these hard times last, we will last LONGER 👏✨💖 Outfit: @bigbottombehavior use code GOOFYGINGER

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